No more hurts.

No more hurts.


Here are a few Do’s And Don’t’s if you want to read and comment me. If you want to know me. Learn them, live them, love them and for God sakes, respect them!


  • Comment me when you read. I appreciate them and it lets me know that people are actually reading what I write.
  • Be nice, I can’t handle bullshit, snarky attitudes towards me and generally just being mean.
  • Understand. Yes understand that everything I write about from the mundane to the painful means something to ME. It may not mean a damn thing to you, but pretend it does and respect my feelings.
  • Try to bold your font in your comments to me. I am legally blind and really have to struggle to read even the bold fonts. The strong tag is above the comment box if you don’t know how to do it. It is simple really and helps ME out a lot. Thanks!
  • Respect that I am happily married and in love with my wife.
  • Respect me as an abuse survivor.
  • Respect me as someone living with catastrophic illness.
  • Respect my friends.
  • Give me friendly advice. I love that!
  • Tell your friends about my blog.
  • Listen to my radio shows. OH MAN I love when people tune in and listen, when they request songs. If you want to tune in, ask me how or…*whispers* click the radio link over on the right. 😉 If you want to know when I am on air, check the air schedule. 😉


  • Don’t link just anywhere to my blog. From your own blogs is fine, blogroll me all you want. I made this blog to be FREE, uncensored and I don’t want my family finding this blog. I will be uncomfortable and censored again. I will stop writing. We don’t want that now do we?
  • IF you know who I really am, don’t go telling people. Please. That isn’t much to ask now is it?
  • Condemn me. Don’t tell me anything I write is wrong. Don’t belittle me for my feelings OR anything else.
  • If you are going to give me advice, know I am autistic and I take things literally and sometimes I have a rough time understanding. So please be kind and explain in simple terms I can understand. Be careful about “constructive criticism” with me. Sometimes I don’t “get it” and I get very hurt.
  • LIE TO ME. Just don’t do it. I am sick and tired of being betrayed, hurt. I am sick of my heart and emotions being toyed with. I am not a fucking puppet, nor am I a rag doll that you can throw down and pick up at your whim. If you want to be a friend, then be a friend ALL the time. If you lie to me and I find out. I will cut you out of my life, period. NO MORE. I can’t take anymore.
  • Fuck with my wife, my best friend Kev, my family. Period. I will rip your head off and shit down your neck, got it? *sweet smile*
  • Stalk me. I hate that shit. I have enough stalkers right now. Yes I really do, I hate it and I am not into being followed around. Don’t think you can woo me away from my wife either. It ain’t happening!
  • Steal my stuff. Remember copyright is a serious thing. Don’t steal my writings. Don’t steal any art I may post here. It is NOT yours.
  • Pretend you are someone you aren’t. I will be your friend if you are honest. I don’t want to think you are a girl from where ever and then find out you are a guy from Bum-fucked Egypt. Don’t do it. I WILL cut you out of my life quick like.

That’s it for now. Thanks for reading AND for understanding. I can’t be hurt anymore. Period.



7 Responses to “Do’s And Don’t’s”

  1. 1 D
    December 2, 2008 at 2:23 pm

    Hell YEAH!!!!Don’t fuck wif mah boy!

  2. 2 sunshines4me
    December 2, 2008 at 1:44 pm

    AMEN to that!!! =)

  3. 3 V
    December 2, 2008 at 2:28 pm

    *laughs at Jenn and D* I had to write this page, just so people will know what I will and won’t put up with. I am tired of being used, abused and fucked over. D…haha you are so silly I love you! *kisses*…Jenn haha thank you for being a friend, you are such a sweet and kind person, thank you also for being supportive and reading my blogs. hehe

  4. May 13, 2009 at 11:28 am

    I’m putting you on my blogroll dude..

    • May 13, 2009 at 11:31 am

      Awesome, I just blogrolled you too! 🙂

  5. 6 writingkeeda
    August 8, 2009 at 11:12 am

    your blog post “where do i fit in” came up in my list of recommended lists.

    and i was hooked on… i couldnt imagine someone could be so fucking honest and blunt…’re doing an awesome job writing about your life… and believe me…. even if none of them admit it., almost all of the people reading your blog have faced something that you have…. i dont mean to belittle your trauma..just telling you that there are people who know exactly what you are talking about

    • August 8, 2009 at 6:25 pm

      Thank you for reading and commenting. I always appreciate comments and don’t get near enough of them haha.

      I hope you will continue to read and to comment!!!

Leave a Reply

Please log in using one of these methods to post your comment: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s - The internets fastest growing blog directory

Page copy protected against web site content infringement by Copyscape

Creative Commons License
The Boy Was Tired Of It All... by V is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-No Derivative Works 3.0 United States License.
Permissions beyond the scope of this license may be available at

who has been visiting?

how many have entered my mind?

  • 24,957 victims
July 2018
« Oct    

%d bloggers like this: